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In honor of Valentine’s Day…I asked…Bertha…to share her best relationship advice…and…as usual…I was a bit surprised by her answers…

I suppose I was expecting something like…put the toilet seat down…don’t go to bed angry…and…while she agrees that those things are important…especially the toilet seat thingie…her answers were quite different…and…she said…they apply to all relationships…not just the romantic ones…

First…she instructed me to…always speak my truth…she says this starts in my own heart…to be honest with myself…what do I want…what do I need…what am I willing to give to another…then…she says…be honest with others…

She reminded me that spoken words…are like seeds…they grow and produce fruits…only if they are truly what’s in my heart…will I reap my heart’s desires…

Her second piece of advice was to have…compassion…to release judgment…of myself and others…seeing all things…through the eyes of love…not passion…but…love…

She said…if I can do these two things…all relationships won’t develop…but that all relationships aren’t meant to…but…the ones that do will be…honest…they will be…strong…they will…stand the test of time…

Jane

PS…Happy Valentine’s Day…