Coming Unbound…

This summer…I’m learning balance…not by walking a tightrope…although…it does feel like it at times…no…I am learning to balance…boundaries…with…openness… Quite frankly…walking a tightrope might be easier… To say my relationship boundaries were…broachable…in the...

Deceitful Appearances

I received an email this morning from a popular magazine…it was actually one of several that they’ve sent me…entreating me…that they…want me…back… Now…my first response…after I clicked…delete…was…but…you never had me…you can’t have me…back… And…honestly…that is and...

More Than a Second Hand Emotion…

Some years back…Tina Turner…asked the famous question…what’s love got to do with it…this morning…in honor of Valentine’s Day…Bertha…has a reply… Everything… Now…Bertha…isn’t talking about the steamy emotions…that sometimes feel like love…but turn out to be much more...

I Like Big Bottom Lines…I Cannot Lie…

I was talking with a friend this weekend…about relationships…their sentiment being…that there’s always a bottom line…a low point…an invisible line…that once it’s crossed…there’s no going back…unfortunately…it’s not something that can be articulated to the other...